Showing posts with label Living Differently. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Living Differently. Show all posts

Monday, March 18, 2013

Recommended Reading

I am in the process of reformulating this blog to a more general discussion/community group and a bit away from the very specific book group we had originally started as. This idea had already been churning around in my head for awhile (because it's a topic near and dear to my heart, but the organized book study was too hard for me to keep up with). But the election of our new Holy Father, Pope Francis, has especially inspired this in me. It occurred to me that Pope Francis has immediately and dramatically presented an example of "Living Differently" that we should emulate and support in whatever way we are able. His name choice also inspires a powerful reminder of how much the testimony of the life of St. Francis is a perfect antidote to the problems of our world today: poverty, simplicity, trust, gratitude, peace, etc.

And so I hope that at this blog we can encourage some great reading and discussions as well as specific ideas for living a more fully Catholic life. There are two points I would especially like you to keep in mind while reading these posts:

1. None of the authors here have these concepts completely figured out. We all feel the importance of aiming continually in this direction, of greater imitation of Christ and the Saints and we hope to share what has worked out for us.

2. We are not all called to live this lifestyle in exactly the same way. So I hope you will find this a place for information and ideas, but not despair that you aren't doing all of these things or that some of these things don't seem to be a very good fit for your family.

Please note: We think these all have valuable ideas, concepts and/or inspiration in trying to live our Catholic more deeply and completely. This does not mean that we necessarily agree with everything in every book, nor are all of the books specifically Catholic. We will try to provide information on these distinctions within the discussion as we are able to get to them (titles with links will click through to the posts relating to that specific book).

7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker
The Anatomy of Peace by the Arbinger Institute
Catholicism by Fr. Robert Barron
Deus Caritas Est (God is Love) by Pope Benedict XVI
Happy are You Poor: The Simple Life and Spiritual Freedom by Fr. Thomas Dubay
The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander
St. Francis of Assisi by G.K. Chestserton
Spe Salvi (Encyclical on Hope) by Pope Benedict XVI
What it Means to be a Christian by Cardinal Ratzinger

(Book list in progress.)

Thursday, November 15, 2012

A Sparing-Sharing Christmas?

The NativityI really loved the quote by Fr. Thomas Dubay in yesterday's post. The phrase "sparing-sharing lifestyle" particularly jumped out. It's something that I hear a lot of people talking about, without having such an apt name for it. In particular, I see a lot of people wanting to work on making their Christmas simpler and more aimed at sharing with others. Though I'm not connecting it directly to the book discussion (though it's particularly appropriate to the "7" discussion), I thought it would make a great topic to discuss here

So the question is, how can we make Christmas simpler, more meaningful, less stressful, and altogether what it should be for us as Catholics and Christians?

Here are a few ideas to get us started. Please share your own ideas in the comments box.

1. Read Lovely Stories (and watch lovely movies) that elevate Christmas as something greater and more beautiful than just the trappings and gifts. A few examples that come to mind are: The story of the birth of Jesus in the bible, Star in the Night, The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, The Little House Books, It's a Wonderful Life...

2. Agree to exchange donation-type gifts with the grown-ups in place of a gift exchange.

3. Let some of your purchases for your family or yourself be saved as Christmas goodies instead of just buying them on a whim (and rather than stretching to find something *else* for Christmas). These can include things like new shoes or a new sweater, some fun kitchen implements, nice spice mixes, or a long awaited new book. Not only does this reduce the accumulation of "stuff", but it also can make some of those things seem less ordinary.

4. Celebrate Advent well. Let it be a time of simplicity and preparation that makes room for the wonder and mystery of the season. While it's not as penitential a season as Lent, it's certain an appropriate time to give up some favorite foods and donate the money to those in need.

One of our favorite Advent traditions is to place pieces of “straw” (strips of yellow construction paper) in our simple manger to symbolize good things we are doing to prepare our hearts for the birth of baby Jesus (like doing a good deed, going to Mass or confession, etc.) On Christmas morning, the manger is under the Christmas tree with Baby Jesus (a simple baby doll) comfortably nestled inside.

5. Encourage homemade gifts. Step 1: Have materials available. Step 2: Let your kids make a mess. ;)


6. Avoid using credit cards.

7. Make volunteering to help the needy (soup kitchen, pregnancy help center, etc.) a part of your Advent traditions.

8. Organize a food, book or clothing drive for the needy at your local school or parish.

9. Host a secret toy exchange in your community.


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This one's going to be under construction for awhile. I'll come back to it, but in the meantime, please share your own ideas (and your favorite books and movies for inspiring a Sparing-Sharing Christmas!).

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

"Worth Reading" Feature!

We've just set up a new feature in the sidebar; it's called "Worth Reading", and includes links to articles, videos, etc. that relate in some way to the topics that we are discussing here. I especially would like to point out the article from Catholic News Service about Cardinal Dolan's address to the bishops yesterday the fact that personal conversion (and really, continual conversion) needs to be our first priority.

Here's the link: Cardinal challenges bishops to undergo their own conversion, renewal.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

100 Things You Can Do to the Make the Country More Pro-Life (and Catholic) No Matter Who is President

Not trying to get into a political discussion here, just an opportunity to remind ourselves what we are capable of regardless of the political situation. The list is not in any particular order...

"Keep the joy of loving the Poor and share this joy with all you meet. Remember: Works of love are works of peace." - Blessed Teresa of Calcutta

1. Respond with Love.
2. In particular, keep the post-election conversations charitable.
3. Have children (and read about "The Roe Effect").
4. Support cool pro-life organizations like Save the Storks.
5. Talk to people. Keep it simple. Don't try to fix everything at once.
6. Work on your prayer life and your relationship with God.
7. Watch how you talk about other people - especially people you don't like.
8. Support the disabled.
9. Recognize what is good in others (and in our country and in our culture) and thank God.
10. Cut back on expenditures to share with others.
11. Donate to a pregnancy help center (a car seat or even a baby blanket can save a life).
12. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, food pantry or other outlet for the needy.
13. Live your life as a reaction to Christ's love for you, not a reaction to the culture or the current political situation.
14. Live what you believe.
15. Pray for our politicians and for our country.
16. Remember that it's not all up to you - you just need to do your part with love and leave the rest up to God.
17. Make friends with people outside your political or religious circles.
18. Cultivate joy in your family and in your community.
19. Adopt a baby or become a foster parent.
20. Help your parish become more life friendly.
21. Encourage each other!
22. Be Not Afraid!
23. Sponsor a needy child overseas (through organizations such as Caritas for Children).
24. Challenge yourself to be a better Christian.
25. Forgive someone who has hurt you.
26. Be a good witness to the Faith.
27. Love those who are suffering.
28. Donate your used belongings to organizations like the St. Vincent de Paul Society.
29. Don't just vote pro-life: think pro-life and act pro-life (to every person you encounter!).
30. Don't despair at what is going wrong with our world - find what you can make better (and do it!).
31. Empower others with hope.
32. Stock your car with "Blessing Bags" to give to the needy.
33. "Replace Them".
34. Love Your Neighbor.
35. Share your gifts with others.
36. Be understanding, loving and helpful to those who have gotten themselves into desperate situations.
37. Cultivate hope in your own life.
38. Donate uplifting books about children with Down Syndrome (or other disabilities) to your public library.
39. Visit the lonely, the sick, and the elderly.
40. Tutor a disadvantaged or special needs child.
41. Be generous.
42. Be humble.
43. Be gentle.
44. Be patient.
45. Be polite.
46. Be friendly.
47. Be cheerful.
48. Be fair-minded.
49. Do good to those who can do nothing for you in return.
50. Read and live the Gospel.
51. Make a special point of helping out single moms or parents who care for a disabled child.
52. Don't take yourself too seriously.
53. Frequent the sacraments.
54. Don't let hatred interfere with necessary disagreement.
55. Study Catholic social teaching.
56. Smile at people you don't know and say hello.
57. Read (and share) the inspiring stories of great pro-life, pro-people saints like Blessed Mother Teresa, St. Damien of Molokai, and St. Frances Cabrini.
58. Support marriages by getting involved with mentoring or marriage prep ministries in your parish.
59. Learn about NFP so you can talk about it intelligently.
60. Give people the benefit of the doubt.
61. Learn more about the "why" of what you believe.
62. Read the Catechism.
63. Appreciate people for who they are, rather than who they aren't.
64. Listen.
65. Respect science and reason.
66. Embrace those who want to help even if they haven't got it all figured out.
67. Embrace the beauty of human imperfection.
68. Get to know your neighbors.
69. Be a friend.
70. Study history.
71. Stop worrying so much about the speck in your neighbor's eye.
72. Be the change you desire.
73. Realize that some words really should be eliminated from our vocabulary.
74. Support people who have miscarried in mourning the loss of a baby.
75. Support organizations that help the surviving victims of abortion, like Project Rachel.
76. Support good schools.
77. Have a sense of humor.
78. Let some of your gift-giving be to the benefit of the needy in the name of a loved one.
79. Assume good intentions.
80. Don't forward political garbage (check Snopes.com to be sure, but also watch the tone!).
81. Cultivate an atmosphere of appreciation.
82. Meet people where they are.
83. Make volunteer work an important part of your family's extracurricular activities.
84. Slow down.
85. Treat people as people.
86. Be aware of God's great love.
87. Get involved at your local parish.
88. Make distinctions (like between essential and non-essential).
89. Be willing to honestly critique your "side", your political party, your candidate, your favorite media. (Great example here.)
90. Practice hospitality.
91. Support your local priests and seminarians.
92. Pray for those on death row.
93. Don't let your political party do your thinking for you or define who you are.
94. Don't hide your light under a bushel basket.
95. Be where you can make a difference.
96. Remember that politics is not *the thing*.
97. Love God.
98. Love your kids.
99. Kiss your spouse. :)
100."Pray, hope and don't worry." (Padre Pio)

"Little things done out of love are those that charm the Heart of Christ… On the contrary, the most brilliant deeds, when done without love, are but nothingness." - St. Therese of Lisieux

Monday, October 22, 2012

An Examination of Attitudes

Our pastor gave an interesting sermon on yesterday's Gospel that involved the concept of "thinking about how we think" and how important this can be for our relationships with God and neighbor. It occurred to me today that this concept provides an interesting and fairly straight-forward way of looking at this project we're tackling here during the Year of Faith.

Fr. Robert Barron's Catholicism gives us the opportunity to consider the way we think about the Catholic Faith.

7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess is a wonderful place to examine our attitudes toward our belongings.

The Reed of God has lots of great discussion fodder for considering our relationship with Jesus through the help of His Blessed Mother.

The Anatomy of Peace is a very careful hashing out of the way we think (and don't think!) about our neighbor.


Thursday, October 11, 2012

Favorite Movies

These are some movies that in various ways highlight topics that we are discussing on this blog. WARNING: Many are not suitable for family viewing! Please preview before sharing with your children.

101 Dalmatians (Glenn Close)
Babette's Feast
Band of Brothers
Brideshead Revisited (Anthony Andrews, Jeremy Irons)
The Boy in Striped Pajamas
Brother Sun, Sister Moon
Captains Courageous
Casablanca
Cinderella Man
The Courageous Heart of Irena Sendler
Driving Miss Daisy
Foyle's War (BBC)
Gladiator
A Good Woman

Groundhog Day
Guess Who's Coming to Dinner (Katharine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy)
Holiday (Cary Grant, Katherine Hepburn)
Henry Poole is Here
I Confess
I Remember Mama (Irene Dunne)
Ikiru
It Happened One Night
It's a Wonderful Life
Joyeux Noel
The King's Speech
Kit
Life is Beautiful
Lilies of the Field
Mr. Deeds Goes to Town
The Maldonado Miracle
A Man for All Seasons
Miss Potter
Meet John Doe
The Miracle Worker
October Baby
The Philadelphia Story (Cary Grant, Jimmy Stewart, Katherine Hepburn)
The Railway Children (PBS)
Regarding Henry
The Sands of Iwo Jima (John Wayne)
The Scarlet and the Black
Schindler's List
The Shawshank Redemption
Spanglish
The Spitfire Grill
Star in the Night (short)
Stranger than Fiction
To Kill a Mockingbird
Twelve Angry Men
The Ultimate Gift
Up!
A Walk to Remember
On the Waterfront
The Way (with Martin Sheen)
The Wrong Man
You Can't Take it With You
Yours, Mine and Ours (Henry Fonda, Lucille Ball)